Monday, September 28, 2009

Just Listen To Her




Fellas, I know a lot of the time it seems like your woman is nagging. You want the solution? JUST LISTEN TO HER!lol For 1, if you're not listening, she can tell and 50% of the argument will be about you not listening. 2, If she's nagging or complaining about something there's obviously somethin that SHE feels is important enough that it needs to be addressed. (try to make it make it more important to YOU) She's expressing her FEELINGS, but she MAY BE just communicating it in a way that makes NO SENSE to you because she's being EMOTIONAL, and we're more LOGICAL of course. When this happens, you have to take the time and look past what SHE'S SAYING, and see what SHE MEANS. And if you care enough about your relationship, you'll work on whatever it is that's making her unhappy. Even if you aren't fully successful, she'll appreciate you trying to work on the problem.

NOW IF U DONT listen, you'll form a wall that blocks out everything she is saying and it will all go into the NAGGING BOX. And you wont even know the issues or problems in your relationship until the end, and i GUARANTEE YOU that all the issues that caused you to lose your woman will be in that NAGGING BOX chillin. lol

IT GETS WORSE.........because you not listening will only make it that much EASIER FOR THE NEXT guy. Why? Because he doesn't have to be the 100% MAN that you had to be to get her. He just has to supply that 20% that you're not. And you know how he's gonna do that? He's gonna LISTEN!!!! And she's gonna tell him all the stuff you do wrong, that u didn't wanna listen to when she told YOU. So he's gonna know EVERYTHING NOT TO DO. And he's gonna play his roll and be that 20% MAN that when put together with your 80% gives her the full 100% she feels she deserves. Say HI TO BOYFRIEND #2.

And finally, the sad part is..............she''ll regret it. Because eventually she'll see the 20% in him. You'll still love her, no matter how hard you try to act about it. Feelings don't go away like that. So she'll love you and not have you, and you'll love her, but your pride wont let you be with her, and your relationship will go down the drain. So, the easiest thing to do would be....................JUST LISTEN TO HER!!!

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